
Organizing a wedding means juggling dozens of tasks spread over more than a year. This reverse timeline gives you, month by month, everything you need to anticipate to approach the big day with peace of mind.
12 months before: the foundations
- Set your overall budget and how it will be financed (see our average budget guide).
- Determine the number of guests: this number conditions everything else (venue, caterer, budget).
- Choose a season and 2 or 3 possible dates.
- Book the reception venue: the most beautiful estates are booked 12 to 18 months in advance.
- Start scouting key vendors: photographer, caterer, DJ.
9 to 10 months before: the main vendors
- Book your photographer / videographer.
- Book the caterer and schedule a tasting.
- Book the music entertainment (DJ or band).
- If you are celebrating at the church, temple, or town hall, set the date for the ceremony.
- Start looking for the wedding dress (allow 6 to 8 months including alterations).
6 months before: your wedding identity
- Send the save-the-dates.
- Define the theme and decoration (colors, atmosphere, flowers).
- Book the florist and the decorator.
- Choose the outfits (groom, wedding party).
- Book accommodations for your guests if the venue is remote.
3 to 4 months before: the details that matter
- Finalize and send the invitations (RSVP requested 6 weeks before).
- Establish the final menu with the caterer.
- Book the hairdresser and makeup artist, with a trial.
- Order the wedding rings.
- Prepare the provisional seating plan.
- Think about entertainments (guestbook, photobooth, speeches).
1 month before: the final stretch
- Confirm all vendors (schedules, addresses, contacts).
- Communicate the final number of covers to the caterer.
- Finalize the seating plan.
- Prepare the day-of timeline hour by hour and share it with the witnesses.
- Do the final trials (dress, hair, makeup).
The wedding week
- Prepare an emergency kit (thread, needle, band-aids, makeup touch-up items).
- Delegate: entrust a witness or a wedding planner with the day-of coordination.
- Settle the balances owed to vendors.
- Rest: everything is ready.
The DreamWeds tip: book the venue, the caterer and the photographer first. These are the three most in-demand services — once they are secured, everything else is organized around them.
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