Thank-yous after the wedding: when and how to thank your guests?

After the wedding, thanking guests helps extend the relationship created during the day. You don't need the same message sent to everyone: a few personal details already make the gesture feel more sincere.

Start with the people who helped you

Witnesses, parents, close family and others who helped organize can receive a message promptly. Thank them for their specific role.

Prepare a message for the guests

A sentence about their attendance and a memory from the day can be enough. If you received a gift, mention it when it feels natural.

Add a photo

When the professional photos are available, an image can accompany the message. This also allows you to share a memory with relatives who couldn't stay long.

Don't wait too long

Thank-yous don't need to be sent the next day. However, prepare the list of recipients before you get lost in the following weeks.

Keep a record

If several people gave you a joint gift, note their names before you file away the cards. You will avoid omissions.

You can also organize your memories with our guide after the wedding.

Frequently asked questions

Should you send a paper card?

No. A digital message can suffice, especially for relatives abroad.

Can you thank the vendors?

Yes. Positive and specific feedback can be appreciated, in addition to the payment provided for in the contract.